To try to think of some positives, even if it were difficult it was the advice for smart marries, I once heard that it is a mistake to marry when you are in love because you do not see defects in the couple that once married highlight them, the reality is that we all have flaws, Elder Christensen stated: “Avoid ceaseless pinpricking. Don’t be too critical of each other’s faults. Recognize that none of us s perfect…”
Also, President Kimball points out that generally each of us is painfully aware of our weaknesses, and we don’t need frequent reminders.
I think that feelings transcend and changed, for good and for bad feelings transcend endure even after death that is why it is our duty to generate ties of love in marriage President Hinckley said: “…actions will cultivate a constantly rewarding appreciation for one another” I do not feel the same love for my dear husband through 32 years of marriage has changed is different because we have taken care and faithfully cultivated with rituals, dinner at home, flowers and special dinners in anniversaries, we went for a walk together, prayers together, we watch shows together, we travel together, on Sunday in the church we both share our testimony, sharing life together has strengthened our relationship that does not mean that we have the same tastes or preferences but that we enjoy being together enjoying mutual well-being there is respect, loyalty, and mutual love.
As President Eyring stated: “we can be better as long we live… He prepares the way” the gospel for Jesus Christ has guided our marriage since we performed that sacred ordinance there have been challenges and mistakes that we have solved for the interest we have for each other.
“Our Family Can Be Together Forever.” The word: “can” means possibility predisposed to fidelity to sacred covenants related to exaltation, President Brigham Young advises us: “Our families are not really ours yet. The Lord has entrusted it to us to know how we will treat them, only if we are faithful, will they be given to us forever. What we do on earth will determine whether or not we will be worthy of becoming heavenly parents”
For a Functional Family 